In all the sources I have that discuss the elasticity equations, they start by saying that the strain tensor, $\epsilon$, is related to the displacement gradient, $\nabla u$, where $u$ is the (vector valued) displacement as
$$ \epsilon_{ij} = \frac{1}{2}\left(\frac{\partial u_j}{\partial x_i} + \frac{\partial u_i}{\partial x_j} + \frac{\partial u_k}{\partial x_i} \frac{\partial u_k}{\partial x_j}\right). $$
Then they say something like "if $\left\|u\right\|$ is small and $\left\|\nabla u\right\|$ is small we ignore the third term in the parentheses and we get the infinitesimal strain elasticity equations..."
$$ \begin{align*} \sigma_{kl} &= C_{ijkl}\frac{1}{2}\left(\frac{\partial u_j}{\partial x_i} + \frac{\partial u_i}{\partial x_j}\right)\\ -g_i &= \frac{\partial}{\partial x_j}\sigma_{ij} \end{align*} $$
Question: I understand why $\left\|\nabla u\right\|$ has to be small, but where in the theory does it require that $u$ is small? I can't find where that is required.
Reason for the question: If we consider a cantilevered shaft and apply a torque at the unsupported end, the resulting displacement isn't necessarily small compared to shaft's cross section. Does this mean that this very simple case has to be analyzed with the finite strain model?